Great interaction on the swimming costume. There is no golden rules on swimming costumes except heat makes then flimsy and looses elasticity, makes them bigger not shrink. Now there's an idea.......

Actually I think it wasn't a telling off, it was a spew which you contained, so there was no flooding rant. I get a lot of that and I believe you handled it spot on. You closed it down tight, which is frustrating for W.

However Jim, mind reading again! W wants to look at everything negatively to justify what she does, but it's fake and she knows it. Only W knows how she feels about you, only W knows if she trusts you, feels safe and is attracted to you at this time, for this fleeting second. Next week all could be different again.

Hold back on the gratitude a bit 80% rule applies.
Sunshine
Vanilla

Last edited by Vanilla; 12/07/14 05:02 PM.

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
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