As I said over in Razrbacks thread, I had what I have coined 'reverse exposure' I told W that I was convinced by our friends that there was an OM. I can tell you, I think it set us back. My W tried avoiding everyone anyway at first, but she has further distanced herself from her true friends because I think she feels ashamed and embarrassed.
Also, it's normal to have days like this. It's tough to go through because it's exhausting and draining, but remember we are all here for you.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)