I'm not necessarily saying drop the rope. I'm saying quit trying to talk him into coming back. Explore yourself as you are, as if you intend to be happy REGARDLESS of his choices. That every part of your life can be great whether or not that one part is. That you give as much weight to the parts of your life that work as you do to this one part that isn't. That knowing and believing in your other blessings gives you strength to deal with your H whatever he throws at you. Or your D.
Tomorrow is another day. The first day of the rest of your life, your very own, one and only life. What will you do to make it good for yourself?
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
