Feeling a little somber tonight. The kids and I had a good day. Cut down a Christmas Tree, decorated it and the house. The house that I built with the W. Definitely tough being the one left behind.

Looking forward... I read the MLC post from a couple years ago and ordered The Solo Partner and Divorce Remedy. An early Christmas present to myself and hopefully, to my family.

Also, every night (for the most part) the person without the kids calls the one with the kids to say goodnight. Is this a good idea? Should I try to discontinue this? My kids are D4 & S2. So I think its really important for them to hear/talk to the other parent, but I'm not sure how it's affecting my path. I try to talk only about the kids. I don't ask questions about her, and I keep my answers short.

Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015