Quote: they can sense that tense energy and then are wary with you. Vibes mean everything.
rj is right on with everything; connecting, common interests, reinforcement. Not being overanxious or tense is key; a BIG one we probably all need to work on.
I keep coming back to the fact it took a crisis in our lives, to refocus and work on listening and communicating skills.
Looking good sh, and don't ASSume, my favorite thing among others.