-have a PMA about the conversation. You may think you know what's coming, but who knows what's going to come out of his mouth.
-but at the same time, have no expectations about the conversation or his actions. He could be "nicing you up" to soften the blow of asking for a D. He could ask for a D and OW could drop him. There's a lot of things that could happen.
-listen and validate his concerns/feelings
-keep your head held high and show the same grace, poise and dignity that you show us daily.
- you don't have to agree to anything in this conversation.
Hugs to you. Please let us know how it goes - will be thinking of you today.
M:32,H 32 T:10, M5 BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15 Served D Papers: 10/15 Divorced: 11/15