Pink,

-look good

-smell good

-have a PMA about the conversation. You may think you know what's coming, but who knows what's going to come out of his mouth.

-but at the same time, have no expectations about the conversation or his actions. He could be "nicing you up" to soften the blow of asking for a D. He could ask for a D and OW could drop him. There's a lot of things that could happen.

-listen and validate his concerns/feelings

-keep your head held high and show the same grace, poise and dignity that you show us daily.

- you don't have to agree to anything in this conversation.

Hugs to you. Please let us know how it goes - will be thinking of you today.


M:32,H 32
T:10, M5
BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger
H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15
Served D Papers: 10/15
Divorced: 11/15