Hey, great DBing there Seattle. You're doing all the right things and yes, I think the glacier is moving ever so slightly!
Quote: I need to be better at looking her in the eye and connecting and not being afraid of being rejected. I felt her gaze at me a couple times and I should have used the opportunity to connect with one of those come hither looks.
Oh... I need to do this too. It works when I do it well. I too have the tense, eggshell, don't want to screw this up vibe sometimes. I know that I do. And it doesn't help matters.
RJ, your advice is excellent. This works very well. Seattle, you asked on my thread what I was doing all that time when H was thinking lots about coming home ... and I was doing a lot of this stuff. It does work. (unfortunately we've have other complications once piecing began)
Just be prepared for the days when it seemingly stops working and try not to let it get you down or bring the eggshell vibe back. This is the hardest part.
I like that she is making the calls. And thanking you. Those are nice little positive signs.
Now... I'm going to go heed all this advice in my own life for a change.
