Done! I read the five success stories in your post.

Train - This short thread is during the piecing phase. Not clear how she got there.

Mighty - It was also after her husband was showing signs of wanting to piece. He was breaking up with his pregnant girlfriend. I explored her older threads but wasn't sure what I was looking for.

Rain - I read the thread from Feb to Nov 14 where she recaps. It looks like her H was very afraid of losing her after all and that's what brought him back. It looks like her H had 4 (!) OWs. Another inspiring thing is that her H had decided that he didn't have a chance with Raine, and that's something that might be happening in my sitch.

Crimson - Interesting that his WAW was in a serious relationship with someone else, but this R failed on its own. Fascinating that he went through D before piecing. Scary, too.

Heart14 - She sounds like the same factors got her to DB, but they never separated. It was short though.

Many of these were MLCs, yet you say that my sitch is not an MLC. Are you sure it applies?

Awaiting orders!

M39 D6 D3 (at S)
S 2014-09
D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.