Thanks GB. I am totally approaching this as making changes for myself and my kids, not H. Regardless of whether he comes back, I want to have my career in place and be making my own money. I hope that doesn't sound bitter or harsh. But I want to protect myself. I want to be in a position of being able to support myself and the kids no matter what happens. If we were to ever reconcile, I would want to be prepared financially, should he BD again. But see, the fact that I don't think I can ever trust him again tells me my marriage is definitely over. You're right, this is a great age for my kids. My 18 month old just toddled into the room carrying a bunch of play balls (way too many for her size) and fell over on the carpet with them, the looked around smiling and acting as if she meant to do that! Cracked me up.
Me: 38 H: 43 Kids: 2,4 T10 M6 BD: 1/14 11/14: H moves out
