If you can detach then judgement will cease. Judgement of others is a hard one because often we think we have the right and some actions are so wicked that it is in our nature to be repelled.
I have always been told to love the sinner but to hate the sin. In general judgement of others is a cancer to our soul whether that is to apply the Halo effect or to condemn.
Your W has and may still be behaving in a very wayward way, how wayward is hard to decide and truly you may never know. This is very hard but please take the higher ground with this. The resentment may hurt you more than anything, you seek to understand, to rationalise what is not to be understood or rationalised. None of the parties W, OM And OMGf are understandable. This is their business and ultimately one way or another they will resolve it. Then their actions will show it.
Trust has to be earned, love and trust are not mutually exclusive. You can chose to love and not trust, just as I don't nor probably ever will trust my H with money. You can trust her for other things, as a mum, with money, to drive to the moon, but not with your heart at this time. Trust can be fragmented and allowed in pieces. Hence when the time comes piecing.
MCS, you are a shing example of perseverance and understanding, losing judgement seems to be an excellent next step in your growth.
Vanilla
Last edited by Vanilla; 12/06/1404:50 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
