I'm sorry you find yourself here and this board is a wonderful support system. You have such young kids and that is challenging in itself. It also sukks that you are sick. Hope you feel better soon and the little peeps don't get sick.
Cadet gave you the goods. Detach. Focus on you and your kids. I know you are in pain and the reality is your M as you know it is over. Actually, it was over a while ago and for your h, the BD was his official announcement to let you know. I don't say that to hurt you. I didn't like hearing it either a d it didn't take long for me to figure out that it was 100% true. This doesn't mean you can't rebuild a new R with your H and your life can be wonderful regardless of the outcome.
Take the focus off him. You have 2 kids who are such wonderful ages. You can never get this time back. And I think it's great you are doing some work on your career. It's a challenging road and you will pull through.
Hang in there:-)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
