Newcomer With Hope (3)

[Vanilla]

I lied in my last post. I do want to R with BF, but I was aware what my actions would do and know that now that will not happen. I am okay with that and the bed I made with BF by doing it, if it means someone else can be saved.

I hope she tries to work on her M. I know her H; not well but we run in the same circles. He has some issues with mental illness (bi-polar?) but loves her deeply and IC and MC could save their family. They have a D7, I believe.

Are you sure you have read DR? Go back and read it again, start with a beginners mind.

I am not a vet and these are my views.
It is not your role to tell OW anything, not only is it bad for you but she is an separate person, an adult. Bf can just get another OW. There is now a child in this mess too.
Stop, don't do it. there are sites which do advocate exposure of affairs but I can not find anywhere in DB that this is advocated especially 'warning OW' and 'saving'. You can not do that and that is her job for herself.

Little- your concern should be you. Whilst you are concentrating on OW you are not concentrating on you.

Think again and reread DR.
Vanilla