Zues - I appreciate that, it's reassuring. When I picture guys who are still single in their early 30's I picture the player types who do the whole one-night stand thing and aren't interested in settling down. It's hard to imagine there are any decent guys out there who aren't already "taken" (and it's still relatively early for them to b D'ed). The only people that have shown interest in me lately have been coming on a little too strongly and in unsettling ways (like stalking me on linkedin) so it hasn't exactly been a confidence booster!
labug - Yes, that is true. But how do I know that without being inside H's head? And what if I really don't believe I did anything that was worthy of marriage-ending? Is it still unhealthy for me to say that I place a lot of blame on H for ending up being D'ed?
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final
