Your posts don't seem to reflect a low PMA IMHO but you know how you feel. From what I've read there seems to be a lot of things going on w/W and you do sometimes need to step back and take note of those coz you can't see them right away.
I definitely know how you feel about the WAS being "happy and moving on", my H told me that a while ago but they still are interacting w/us so who says that it's THEM and not what we're doing? No answers here but maybe a bit of both?
Yes, it is tiring and discouraging but it is not without a reason. I believe that. The reason, we may never know. But know this, everyone that is on the BB and is working on saving their R are better people for it. We have learned so much and each of us has grown in many ways.
I know that for me it has been eye-opening and through the sould searching and enlightenments, it showed me what I was doing wrong even if they were minor things (no A, no abuse, etc..) just plain life habits. Hopefully I've broken those habits and long for the day to share them w/someone that I love; be it H or someone new, my life will never be the same when it comes to R. What have you learned about yourself and interacting w/others? It is worth it, whatever the outcome.
Hang in Seattle, you're doing fine. Congrats on basketball! thanks for visiting me and spreading some words of wisdom. Tootles..........
