I also hope to take another martial art. I know of an inexpensive Judo club or a doing some knife fighting (eskrima) training.
I have a mandolin that I'd like to finally learn to play.

I realized, after your post, how much I am still kind of watching and waiting for my W to make a move. Anything. An indication of what she wants and I need to stop that.
She is going to do what she is going to do in her own time and I can't just sit her waiting and driving myself crazy in the meantime.
Thank you for the feedback.


M-44
W-44
Sons- 11&14
Married- 18
Together- 27
Separation mentioned- 9-29-14
Still together, but not "together"
"if you feel rotten and forgotten,
remember there'll be better days."