You told your H EXACTLY what I would love to the mine. Love IS a choice and I still cannot comprehend how someone can abandon their family. I'm pretty sure my H is done with our M, too. I hope that one day I will be able to accept this. I'm not there, yet. Sending prayers your way.
Me: 54 H: 58 Married: 29 years Together 33 years H admitted to A: 5/29/14 H moved out :6/15/14 OW lives 4 hours away and "occasionally" stays weekends with H D23 D18