Mmmmmm that's good and all great food or thought.

While I was sleepin you guys were fixing the whole world.

The only thing I see about the statement can we fix it or is it gone. My h would have taken that as control.

What he saw as solutions was h would apologise for major events, the event would be forgotten by the end of the sentence by the hurt party with no feelings ever dealt with nor the initial behaviour dealt with.

If he was upset about minor things then it got dragged out dealt with repeated rubbed over etc. it felt very one sided minor transgression by me like messy house was a huge big deal breaker on his list. Nothing he did was important or needed dealing with.

Last edited by Ggrass; 12/06/14 12:13 AM.
M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26