That is exactly my H's sentiment and I'm still fairly new to all of this. I've read several of your posts and yours is one of the stories I identify with the most in terms of our husbands' attitudes about their marriages. My husband says he tried too, but I didn't get the memo that as we were living our lives day to day and yes, at times, struggling because we didn't have the right tools and information about what it takes to have a healthy marriage, that he was trying. I do actually have a question for you that I'll post another time when I don't have the flu and the whole bath/bedtime routine looming in front of me. For what it's worth though, I think you're doing really well and are showing excellent strength through all of this.
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Me: 38 H: 43 Kids: 2,4 T10 M6 BD: 1/14 11/14: H moves out
For what it's worth though, I think you're doing really well and are showing excellent strength through all of this. 
