Hi mozza. Remember before you said that them moving in might speed up the end if the A - it will get real quickly and if its fun she wants that might not last that long.
You seem to be doing a really good job on identify your things and working on them. Try and concentrate your PMA by remembering that.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress