Thanks for posting everyone, as usual, I really do get a lot out of the responses and opinions everyone has. They are really helpful.
TJ - Thanks for confirming what I have been trying to implement, I believe it is slowly having some effect. You have been a great model and example of how those things have worked for you and I have taken that cue.
Wonder - Thanks for the insight on the women's feelings of PMS and how they react. VERY HELPFUL. I also appreciate your suggestions on the letter. I am carefully trying to word it so there isn't any miscommunication like sometimes when it comes out of my mouth. You are very welcome on the support, anytime. We all need encouragement!
Imalright - Thanks for sharing your letter! Concise, direct, clear, and non-pressuring! I thought it was great and it sounds like you are getting some good traction from it. I've been working too long on my letter, I just need to get it done and send it. I think I've been too meticulous.
Carrie - Good to hear from you! My fellow dog owner certainly can sympathize how we view and feel like they are our children. Yes, I do believe this might be another step since she was so adamant before about how "You never loved this dog, you haven't been around the past months, what makes you think you can show love for her now." She said this while crying and very upset. So I think it might be another step.
