There is plenty of time and space, more than you think. Allow this to yourself and your son. Self improvement is a lifelong objective and not just about physicality but spirit too. Age has no bearing on this as I wish that I had discovered this early.
W will notice your changes, but do this for you.
The generous members of this board invest in themselves and offer advice and support to each other. They will spend time investing in you (not W). DB will be for life.
What a great post! I imagine that this is applicable to almost everyone... it is definitely applicable to me!
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015