there has been nothing more successful for me than to have a smile on my face when I am speaking to my W and when not to smile during the convo. and laughter is the key to it all. with laughter, there is no pressure. and WE ALL know how funny you can be (especially in spandex!)
showing a PMA to her even when hurting will do wonders on the pressure she and you will feel.
you are exactly right.....Good feelings build the friendship. No one wants to be friends with a grumpy, vindictive non smiling pity party.
Triple J
Things were different then. All is different now. I tried to explain, somehow..........
Eddie Vedder (Pearl Jam)
