I'm not sure you're going to be wanting my advice, because I'm not sure your actually DBing your husband right now.
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I said nothing upsetting last night except my "It's a friggin party under this bus, in case you were confused about that."
No doubt HIS feelings got hurt because I suggested he might have done something wrong in his life. Therefore, I must pay.
Nit picking on my part but you did say something upsetting and on purpose, and you're upset at his reaction?
If you're here because your husband is in an MLC then understanding that an MLC is a sickness helps get a marriage through this.
I have little to no doubt that you as a person will come through this a little scarred and hurt. But generally solid.
I worry however that your husband with his MLC will be dashed against the rocks of your unyielding strength.
Now I admit that I am only reading your most recents post, the ones in the last few months. So maybe you just hit the patch where you're done, alot of us get there, and if so my apologies for not reading far enough back.
On a side note I would have loved to see you play in your band. The bands you mentioned are some of my favorites.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
