Mahhhhty man, guys like us gotta learn to shut it. Those are some great tips though. Not sure if I can do the cold showers, but the strategy about asking what you want to say/what you want to hear seems really helpful. The book also sounds like a must read for someone like me.

Vanilla, yes, as stated I live with some family now. They are there for me and help with my son as much as possible. They've been gone this week unfortunately. So it's just been me and the kiddo in the big empty house. Thank you for your kind words. I know that, whatever happens, he has to come first.


Me 23, Her 21
1S 2
M <1yr, T 7
WAW: She moved out 11/15/2014
She started D process 1/29/15