Just voicing my opinion and trying to make you think a little. I totally get the holidays. And I totally get living through the eearly days. Keep up the good work and I will keep nagging you ;-)
What would you have her do, bdub?
What is her H getting that you think he should be denied? He deserves access to his family so I'm having trouble picking up what you're laying down.
Life will give him whatever consequences he needs. It may not be now and it may not be visible but that's really not our business.
Help me understand your viewpoint.
rpp,I think you're doing a great job and I think this is giving you an opportunity to really think about what kind of life you want for you. Bravo!
I also read your response to K girl about finding another man "at your age." Interesting things happen in this process and you may find that you are very happy just as you are right now. There is no rule that we can only be happy attached to a man. Before my H and I decided to date again, I as perfectly happy in my life. I did miss having someone to do things with (dinner, movies, trips) but not enough to seek someone out. I figured when the right person came along, the right person would come along. I could do these things alone or with friends. I really had to think hard about upsetting my new, free, single life. I got married at 22, so I hadn't had much of that.
Stretch your wings a little and fly a bit.
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Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
