You are so unbelievalbe in your attitude going through what you have been through lately. You are such a great great woman for keeping such an open heart. I think all DRers strive for such an attitude in everything we do. You are really an inspiration to everyone.
Thanks for sharing on the PMS thing! Us guys have no understanding of it other than when we get pissy sometimes. I hear you that she will be all over the place. But I think that was the good I found in it, since she never reveals any doubts usually and the ones she has verbalized has been when she is PMSing. I'll have to think of non-pressuring questions to draw her out without forcing. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.
Like when she says she is confused, maybe I could say I can understand how you could feel confused, this has been the most confusing time in my life. Could we explore our confusion together? Any ideas anyone?
I get your point, don't be alarmed if the emotions come out negatively because the defense systems may be hyper sensitive. I have seen that side too, not often. Mostly its emotional crying and confusion and she opens up more, not anger but I'll keep that in mind.
