KGirl, I know this is all scary, but honestly I kind of envy you doing this at 28 instead of 49 like me. Where am I gonna get a guy that's not been M two or three times, that doesn't have a bunch of kids, that isn't set in his ways, that takes care of himself well enough to meet my standards? I take a look around in the places I go and my H is the best thing out there not wearing a wedding band.
Take a leap of faith, girl. When you are ready, of course.
