K- this isn't directed as interest in you personally so don't misunderstand me. But as a 35 year old male I've had some time to think about what I might look for in my next R.
-I've been with two women. My gf of 5 years and my STBX of 10. I wouldn't want to be physical with a woman outside of a LTR. And that is what I'd be interested in. I wouldn't want a woman that values this less than me.
-a woman who has been divorced by a WAH has struck me as a appealing option vs never married. We'd have common experience and perspective on what a M is and what it takes. Someone that is ready to work and stick it out through the seasons, that takes vows seriously, that is looking for a lifelong partnership vs a Disney soulmate that cannot b achieved- this would be a plus.
It would be hard for me to trust someone that hasn't been through this because though everyone says they don't believe in divorce, they find out they do when things get tough or stagnant. I think you bring the experience and character that a lot of quite guys would appreciate. So there is a match out there if your H doesn't wake up. Have faith.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
