Last interactions with WAW have been on vmail. I left her a message back Thurs night at 10:33p after my basketball game (hey we're playing for the championship! woo hoo!) to respond on her question of the tax forms. She might have called because she was nervous about meeting her old boss? Long story but she might have been looking for support? Guessing here. I left her my number and chuckled while I did it (just like she did for me) and said I could drop them off on Friday after work. Today she mentioned she giggled when she heard me leave my number like she did to me, of course we know each others numbers!
She called late on Fri at 7:33p and initially sounded like she was trying to compose herself, then went into chatterbox mode (reflex when she is uncomfortable) and rambled on how she didn't get my message yesterday and turns her cell phone off after work and to call her at the business she will be there until after 8p. Didn't know if she was calling to see if I was out on Fri night, or bec she is reaching out to be friends since she was free that night or just to talk about taxes or whatever, I don't know. Maybe testing. I was out with buddies and didn't call back. Today she said she almost went with a GF to the same place, another thing we have in common. (so much for fundamentally different)
Today I went by her business and was looking good, had PMA up, not too high, but was friendly and calm. She was talking to an employee when I went in and I browsed around until they were finished and let her approach me. This seemed to have been better than waiting in line to talk to her. More relaxed? More monitoring.
I told her I didn't get her message until late, I was a little babbling brooke, and she recipriocated with conversation. Said cool place you went (jazz club) I'll have to go there. I so wanted to say, I'll take you but I said nothing and take it as a positive she shares same interest that I did.
I made an appointment for laser hair removal consultation and she said I'll just make you a full appointment just in case. I asked about the sorority girl that I got to come in and WAW said she was really cool and WAW was excited about the prospects. I THINK THIS IS GOOD!
I asked if I could see our dog tomorrow and we scheduled a time. I asked for early, she told me NO, I was a little hurt, brushed it off, then WAW explained she has morning meeting with GF. I asked for afternoon she said yes and I got bold and asked for an overnight while bashfully smiling (I think this worked bec I communicated with body language instead of words, ever see the Pepe LePew cartoon and the girl skunk bashful, like that look). She said that might work out. I said we could figure it out tomorrow.
Seems like an pretty good interaction and conversation. I didn't overstay my welcome and was friendly but not overly. I will let her come to me in her own time, don't chase the butterfly.
We did talk about the Money Tree I gave her and she really loves it. Loves the small leaves when they grow to big ones and I can tell she is sincere when she says she loves it. I can't forget the baby steps. This detaching while being friends thing is really tough!
