Oh the how..... (He says wistfully).

If I could figure out the how then life would be so much easier and I'd be much happier.

I'll give rewriting that list a go but there are a few I don't know where to start like 5 for example. I've managed to convince myself that OM2 is perfect and that on no level could o possibly be the better choice (only a fool would pick me). I know logically this is nonsense but logically my W wouldn't choose to leave.

So a couple of these have some substantial work required on my part. 2,3,5,6,8,11, 13, 16-20 and 34 are the ones that if I can fix will make the most positive difference. I mean looking at them if I dealt with that stuff and made them strengths then I would be a very different person. Add some of the others (23 for example) and there's some real promise.

I'll try and map it out in a fancy diagram (that probably only makes sense to me.)


I'd like that - I need a dance instructor.

Christmas here in England is always good though the weather might be a bit of a shock for GGrass. A warm mince pie with clotted cream will sort that though. They do ceroc dancing on a Thursday near me and have a black tie Christmas ball coming up - I can make a tux look good.


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress