X Mr GB and I hammered out our own arrangement (I'm very frugal and it seemed ridiculous if we couldn't to me since we had 3 kids). To be completely honest, part of it was that I did not want a few things to come to "light" and we decided we could do it ourselves.
I have final decision making over everything except religion. X is atheist and I consider my spiritual so no formal religion. However, my kids do attend a religious school that h understands (due to where we live, learning disabilities and behavioral issues) is really the only choice. And now I'll say something that may warrant some head swiveling from fellow readers. I am relentless in anything that has to do with the well being of my children. I essentially told xh that he was welcome to final decision making over religion because if kids were wanting to join a cult, he should feel free to intervene and realize religion turns out to be an extremely personal decision. There was no snark intended as xh was raised in a fairly religious household. I was raised in a very religious household and while I respect others beliefs, for me, I started forming my own beliefs around age 8.
Sorry if I high jacked. Good luck :-)
Last edited by Georgiabelle; 12/05/1402:57 PM.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
