I am not sure if IC knows about DBing or understands its principles. Sometimes we talk about IC around here...some are good and some are really bad.
I would encourage you to read other people's threads and post to those that resonate with you. Even a simple "hi, i m here to support you" will drive traffic back to your thread. Reading other people's thread will help you in the growth area as you will see new perspectives that you might not have thought of before.
Many WASes need and must have the space from the LBS. It is universal here in DB. With time, their walls start coming down and you will eventually have contact with your W. Patience. This is a marathon, not the 50-yard dash.
What is the status on your discussions with L about dropping the RO?
