I agree w/Gwen...it's time to think about putting something legally in place where it comes to support for your son. I know you probably don't want to go that route right now, but it's important to get something set up and if you have to, have his wages garnished and the money sent directly to your account. It's shameful the way he's handled this situation.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
