You asked if anyone felt like they were dealing with the same personality type. Yes. I do.
Quote: We never talk about R unless she brings up D papers. That is when I have been saying I understand why you want this, I don't want this, but I won't stand in your way. Then there is R talk. I feel as if she feels like I am delaying and she even said waiting isn't going to change her feelings. So she feels pressure there. I don't know if there is another way to relief this pressure other than to give her what she wishes, actually let her start the D process. Like she is finally free and maybe she will warm up more.
This really hit home for me given my sitch this week.
Maybe some of them do need to file the D to relieve some pressure.It doesn't sound like you're applying pressure, but sounds like she is still feeling it (what my H says too). Sounds like there is some warming there.
I too am torn about the friend thing. I just don't know. Friendly, sure, but I think that may be all I could do emotionally. We'll see, both of us.
