I also validated for myself that my atty is a sorta anal pricck who spins a lot himself. He gets very tense and I know I drive him a bit crazy. This D hasn't been my top priority. Smokey has become an afterthought when it comes to day-to-day living. I may still grieve and so forth for our old live...but my focus has been on this new life. If I had had the funds to really shop around, I probably wouldn't have chosen him. But, even where he's concerned, I gave myself permission to love myself regardless of what he things and just do my best.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
