She did say Thank You in that special kind of tone when she would say it to me when she felt really appreciated by me when I did somthing for her in the call above.
I think I'm going to drop by with the appropriate tax forms for her. It would make her life easier and also give me a reason to stop by.
This is after I've been really thinking about her the last couple of days after our big emotional R talk and I think this may be a sign she is really thinking about me too. Like she is reaching out to rebuild friendship like she said she would? She could ask anyone this tax rebate question about Canada. What do you guys think?
Karen - I have been doing those things dropping by her business and she has said she appreciates all the support lately. So I know that works and I will keep doing it to keep up the familiaiarity and contact.
Betsey - That is a good idea. I'm going to listen to those tapes again. He also has What your Father didn't know and Mother couldn't tell you, mars venus but more in depth. Will listen to those.
I realized I've got to quit ASSuming she will want to talk about us and go to MC or whatever. Just act as if I've accepted her decision and despite that I will just continue to be her best friend, act gentle, caring, kind, and friendly. She can trust me with anything, I will not get angry at her or say things to hurt her.
Just focus on the actions steps and action signs and not expect any words to confirm. Quit looking for the words pavlov, down dog.