Hey Heather, Well, it seems now that you are feeling better, now my W has struck again. I let her goad me into "talking", big DB no-no, that's for sure. Well, not only did I get the usual how "unfair" I'm trying to be, I got an entire rehash of the most vile spew from the last year with even more thrown in for good measure! To be honest, I have been on edge like you were the last week myself being totally broke and having to ask parents AGAIN for money to trying to make some at my present job and finishing the courses that I need to start the new one and was feeling overwhelmed. Her hour and half long spew didn't help.
It's was so hard to hear how awful our entire M was, how awful a h and father I was, how she has NEVER really loved me and would have actually died if she didn't move out. How I should not get to recover the money from paying the debts she brought into the M, nor the retirement money of mine we cashed in. How I only was good to my older D AFTER W asked for a D because I wanted to "make her the bad guy". To top it off I hear from HER that my lawyer sent HER lawyer a letter saying he was no longer going to represent me! Says that he has been unable to reach me. Well, last I heard I told his secy. that I couldn't meet until the first week in Dec. because I was looking for a job AND still trying to earn a living! I didn't get a letter!
Sorry didn't mean to hijack there! I'm just so glad you are feeling better and now I want to start feeling that way as well. I am so curious to see this newspaper and read your column! How did you you stop the spinning from this latest Smoky event? Right now I feel like I want to cry and at the same time kick W's butt! (I never would, just feel like it). What helped you the most to stop feeling so darn overwhelmed?
