SS, I am so sorry.
My son's preschool is concerned because he's been crying every day and saying he's sad. Obviously he's much younger, but when my husband and I explained what was happening with the separation, the teacher said that it's probably affecting him. While my husband thinks we need to talk to our son about the fact that Daddy's not living at home right now, he also is in complete denial. Today he said "How do we REALLY know he's crying about me not being here? Maybe a kid on the bus is bothering him."

Going into the closet to yell into the winter coat was a smart way to let out the complete anger you must have been feeling at that moment. I'll have to remember that one.


Me: 38
H: 43
Kids: 2,4
T10 M6
BD: 1/14
11/14: H moves out