Are you looking to reconcile as well? I feel a little desperate, but I feel like fighting for my marriage is worth it. I'm doing Sandi's 37 rules but I'm a little afraid that it's too late...? and I think it's ineffective if he won't speak with me. Have you been able to get your mind off things? If so, how? I don't sleep well at all. I wake up multiple times a night and think of him and this woman. Any tips on your strategy?
I'll def keep posting, it is therapeutic and I'm hoping to help anyone else get thru as they help me.
