Hi Dawgy. I too haven't posted in a while.

Why don't you just get into bed beside her, turn your back and go to sleep. If she asks what you're doing, just say sleeping in our bed. She may get up and go to the couch. Or she may just shrug her shoulders, roll over and go to sleep too.

If she tries to pick a fight, don't take her bait.

I highly recommend reading the book: Hold On To Your NUTs. I just finished it and I'll be a better man for it.

Have you been working on a self-improvement strategy? What are you doing to be a better man?

Don't focus on her and her problem. Focus on your own improvements. As you become better, she may notice. If she doesn't then it's her loss. You only have good things to gain by working on yourself.


M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014