Great list GG! Your H is NUTS to let you get away, with all of your various skills and talents! :-)

Regarding: But I just don't understand the dynamic we're talking about here. I have said before that H seems to take all his cues from me and seems easily hurt, which comes off as this passive aggression. But for Pete's sake----the man steamrolled me and he gets upset if I say I'm the least bit peeved about what position I find myself? If I am not happy, friendly, non-confrontational, acknowledging every little thing he does and do not dare mention that he might be human, we appear to get along well if he can stand to be in my presence.

Could NOT have said it better myself. I am right there with you GG. Same here. After 21 years, you'd think I'd have figured out how to deal with this - because it's always been this way for us - but I am obviously the one with all the problems because I'm 'insensitive and uncaring.'

I love the X-mas lyrics too! Can't wait to see what others come up with!

Last edited by LiveNow; 12/05/14 03:21 AM.
Me 53, XH 57
M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids
BD June '13
H moved out July '13
Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14
H filed for D Nov. '14
D March '15