Hi Dev. Yeah I know it's hard when you have a spouse with mental health issues. My W has been suffering from PTSD Complex for the past 5 years and I'm sure that played a part in her walking away, as much as my lack of meeting her needs or speaking her LL. She still says she's depressed and not stable. But now that she's moved home she's starting to feel better. She also claimed to have ideations of suicide a year ago so I know your concerns. A good therapist helps.

Great to hear that you're doing well and looking after your kids well. Read that book: Hold On To Your NUTs.

Keep up the great PMA.


M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014