Thanks for the words of support zew. You're absolutely right, nothing has changed. She wanted to take immediate action towards D just a few days ago, and now that's changed.
I don't want to be the cause of tension around the house, so if she wants to be open about how we reduce that tension, I'm willing to listen. But I'm done initiating any of these conversations. At least that's what I'm going to try.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!