"I really feel like WAW has made up her mind and she is very inflexible and won't change it or even consider the thought of talking, or working on it to EVEN SEE if it is possible to change her position."
They are that way, aren't they? And when we look back, we see this was often the case. But we wanted so to appease and to not make waves and try to please them, we gave in, much too often it seems. But I thought I was doing what was best for the family and supporting her, but I was being taken advantage of.
Glad you reached "that" place. I know I am a long, long way from there. I want so to be angry with her for being so selfish but I am so, so sad for these children who see the sadness in me and do not understand this. S3 wants to know where Mommy's stuff is?
They know exactly what they are doing. Though we have no idea, whatever they are seeking is FAR more important than anything else and anything we can imagine. Because to us, there is NOTHING more important than family.
We know you cannot, though try as you might and strangely despite how terrible they've hurt us, we still want them in our lives, draw her back. You can become a better person and offer a better life.
"Just believe what I say already, I'm not doing all this as an act."
They will never believe what we say, "This still hasn't changed and it will never change," so all we have is to show them CONSISTENTLY and I said, not for them, but for US.
