I am trying to keep a good attitude for myself (not just so WAW loves me), sometimes it is very hard and I would be thrilled to help cheer you up anytime.
I know how long and hard your journey has been and I commend you for your patience and consistency. You are SO RIGHT about the tread marks. A MC friend I spoke to yesterday reminded me of the old rule, after you ask someone to do somthing 3 times, that is when they finally start considering it as an option. 1st is usually no way, thats absurd. 2nd is no way, it wouldn't work. 3rd finally is maybe that would work. WAS are of course longer in the process.
Great point on the OM. She is busy ruining her life. I'll fill you guys in on what she said later.
She is also SO BUSY with her new salon business she JUST DOESN'T have time for me. But I got a major breakthrough here as well, I'll fill you guys in later.
I just got a phone call from a sorority girl I was soliciting (business only) to come into WAW's salon to drum up more business. She is the social director for all parties, which means more girls. WAW let me run with this idea and I did the work for her. I did everything but give the facial or waxing or whatever. She just called my cell phone asking for directions because she is going in for her service right now.
This after our talk last night about how stressed she is and how badly she needs new clients. WAW also mentioned how she doesn't have enough energy or time in the day to do everything. I said I would love to help. She of course said she didn't want me overly involved in her business (cat hissing). So this timing is good, I hope it helps fill the love tank some more and she realizes I do a lot for her unconditionally. This appointment was set up long before last nights talk.
Note about her trip to Vancouver. I was worried she was going with OM. She was talking about it so much and we did this and that I broke down and asked who she went with. She went with GF from work! Woo hoo! She said last night she remembered what a fun time we had in Vancouver together the last time we were there. Another Woo hoo!
But she of course had to say she was reminded about a bar I went to too much there and it was feeding my substance abuse. I told her I'm sorry you were reminded of that. I have quit cold turkey. She seem to think that was a good thing, but later threw out a if you really did quit comment.
Just believe what I say already, I'm not doing all this as an act.
