Seattle and UD..you two are on a roll today. The humor is just unbearable. I'll have to make a note so when I need a little lift to come back to today's postings to get a gut buster going ! LOL
Onto the topic at hand....Seattle, great that you have found your journey in this. Just want to give you encouragement that maybe one day WAS will be ready to talk. I thought my H would never talk and all I was doing was spinning my wheels and like we've talked about, those tread marks eventually start to hurt when you keep getting trompled! But, finally after 1 yr, I think I have seen the turtle poke his head out and start to question our sitch and what is really happening. That's not to say that we are in any way close to recovery but I feel positive about the things that have gone on thus far.
You probably know this but if your WAS is w/OM (I know you've said that) then she is not ready to talk coz her head is spinning w/other thoughts right now. She is busy covering up the guilt, pain, fear, etc... that exists with someone else. Don't fret over it. You are the person that she will always remember. And your journey here will teach you many things. We already know that you have become a better person for enduring this and learning how to change.
....some day she will know it too..... Hang in! (((((()))))) Tootles.........
