Actually in my case since 2011 my mates have been complaining about "not being me"
Of not being remotely happy and sounding dressed despondent and a 180 of how they all knew me. How withdrawn, it was all self protection.
It was such a slow decline I did not see it or feel it. It was one of h complaints, but head so many. Mostly negative spew pretty much a gritstorm like mr gritty.
Constantly being called vindictive unforgiving nasty bitch w#^# accused of affairs.you name it he said it. Hiitting the child and all those other things he did just iced the cake while he blamed me for his short comings.
He very often ok so all the time put me last on the pecking order some,thing his w1 complained about, also he hands out punishment like another of the mlc husbands after he did something to hurt you.
if you complained stood up and stated its not ok you got punished. He is telling every one he's doing for the ow those needs I needed all that time. I suspect to punish me, except i don't feel punished I feel happier and healthier.
Like others on this board I cannot return to what we had, he is unable to won his part. Even in the settlement.
Vanilla Norty kickers in a vanilla shade! Whoooot whhooooot your gunna be smoking.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
