Jim0987 #6 - starting a bit of a rebuild

[jim0987]

Just curious as to whether I've done the right thing by not responding to my Ws question about divorce.

Anyway my first list, the first 20 I listed previously. Still working on the second.

1) My kids (they are part of who i am even though this is external validation)

2) I’m a good dad

3) I’m analytical

4) I get ‘concepts’ pretty quickly

5) I’m able to make connections between ideas

6) I can ‘wing it’ better than most

7) I can improvise solutions

8) I have ideas, always (however unrealistic or unworkable)

9) I’m curious about how things work

10) I’m can make a tasty meal (and delicious cookies)

11) I’m loyal

12) I’m a little bit silly and abstract

13) I have a dry sarcastic humour

14) I can really talk when I’m passionate or excited about something

15) I have an adventurous side

16) I’m genuinely concerned about others

17) I like to snug

18) I love Christmas and get quite festive

19) I get interested in other peoples interests

20) Fairness matters to me

21) My blue eyes

22) I can eat pretty much whatever I like

23) My hair has a silly mind of its own fluffiness to it

24) I can run with an idea

25) I’m intelligent

26) I have a good job

27) My finances are in ok shape

28) I love to travel

29) I can turn out a lot of work quite quickly when i need to

30) I’m successful in my field

31) I have a good technical reputation

32) I like my job

33) I have a great @$$ (and not the donkey kind)

34) I enjoy new things

35) I’m ambitious

36) I’m domestically self-sufficient

37) I make a great ‘dragon’ and a great ‘slug’

38) I make good play-dough animals and dinosaurs

39) I can write a good best mans speech (laughs and tugs the heart strings)

40) I love a good film (though I tear up at some cheesy stuff )

41) I’m a sucker for schmaltz

42) I love music

43) I’ll only do it at home but I dance around and sing to myself

44) I can forage a meal out of not many ingredients and 90% of the time its turns out good.

45) I cant follow a recipe – I have to elaborate and improvise

46) I care about other people

47) Even the people i don’t like i don’t want to see hurt

48) I have no rhythm at all

49) I have good skin – if a bit moley

50) I have a good level of balance in my attitude toward safety and taking risks

51) I good with numbers

52) I think in diagrams and lists

53) I’m a good facilitator of a group

54) I’m inquisitive

55) I’m a good presenter/trainer

56) I’m very pragmatic about most things

57) People dye their hair to have it the same colour as mine

58) I can entertain people with my strange theories

59) I can absorb information quite quickly

60) I don’t get poetry that doesn't rhyme

61) I like a good landscape especially if its dynamic (sea/volcano etc.)

62) I like impressive architecture

63) I’m British/English and I like that

64) I’m a bit of a snob when it comes to some foods like sausages and ice cream

65) I love junk food

66) I’m really good at scrabble (high scores through maths rather than big words)

67) I’m a fountain of useless information and obscure facts, good for pub quizzes

68) I pretty good with obscure film references

69) [Censored]

70) I can make a metaphor out of most things

71) I can talk for ages before I realise I’ve lost everyone

72) I can do one helluva soapbox rant and entertain in the process

73) My mind is usually quicker than my mouth

74) My thoughts are constantly reacting and moving on (if i try to list 3 things then it will be at least 7)

75) I’m pretty quick across a squash court

76) I have a healthy interest in sport

77) I can be utterly convincing on some very silly things

78) I can use logic to argue a point

79) I have ‘Jim Logic’ (term used by my friends)

80) Its important to me that I feel like im doing some good in the world

81) I good at summarising a group conversation and bringing it back to the point

82) I enjoy feeding the ducks

83) I understand and appreciate the importance of tea

84) I play with my kids in stupid (fun) ways wherever and whenever

85) I’m good with lego

86) I like a road trip

87) I’m politically minded

88) I make a good ‘Devils advocate’

89) My opinions are my own (and I always have one)

90) I’m helpful

91) I’m willing to accept my failings and work on them

92) I want to be a better person

93) I’m a bit all or nothing though maybe this isn’t a good thing

94) I can make people laugh

95) I can always see the good in someone else

96) I’m really good at improving on other peoples ideas

97) I like to use a good quote in everyday life (including stupid stuff from films/TV)

98) I like to read and to learn

99) I like to share what i know and get other peoples ideas

100) I really like to spark of other ideas people