He behaves like he is missing me, like he needs to be connected but yet he is moving forward w/D. Please, help me understand.
H has been texting every day for one or another stupid reason. Things he never did before now became normal for him. He even called me and left a nice message for me to call him back to discuss his invitation for our almost 21y old son to go with him to a company Christmas Party this coming Friday. Didn't call back... our older kid is a man, I do not need to talk to H about him going to a party.
H texted on Tuesday evening asking if we could meet on wed or thur, I did not answer right away. I need to meet with a lawyer tonight and I want to have all my info about my rights and what I can or can't negotiate with H before I talk to him. So, I text him back saying I was busy all week and could meet with him on Saturday.
Wednesday morning my kids had school late start and he comes in a house about 20min earlier, I was finishing the kids breakfast. He saw me and got really nervous, apologized for entering the house. I didn't say much, but I asked him what he wants to talk to me, if it was about the D and he said no, that he wants to talk about us, about our lives. Then I asked again, "about us, so you mean about our D?"... Ooops no DB at all, but he said that he just want to see me, spend some time with me, talk about us.
I am mind reading here, but I think he will try to convince me he wants to sell the house. Well, I am not supposed to be mind reading and get ready for something I don't even know. Need to calm down and see what happens.
Somehow, part of me wants to give up on all of this. I am tired of it all, all the drama, being careful, trying do not get hurt emotionally and/or financially. It's so much stress right now.
Does anyone have an advice for Saturday? Does anyone have some experience with the fact that H asked for a D, tells he has OW in the picture, left the house and does text me every day and sometimes calls me.
I don't want to get hurt again, but I don't want to lose an opportunity to make him fall in love with me all over again.
