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The rope is dropped completely. I do not want to R with BF in the future.

I sent a message to OW on facebook. I told her how we started, BF and I, and how she needed to know he has a pattern of cheating. I told her he's been sending me inappropriate texts and although I knew he was done with me for an R, it's not right, and I didn't want to see her get hurt.

She asked for some proof and then apologized. Told me they'd been banging for a long time and she cried the night he told her he was breaking up with me, because she felt guilty. Yes, he left me for her: The night he told me hebhad cheated with someone but it was long over, there was no one else and he wanted to work on himself.

I told her how I felt about him. How I was willing to work on our R and how I consider him my soulmate. I relayed some of my side of our story, I told her she could do what she wanted with the info but I didn't want to see someone else hurt like I am now. I advised her to go back to her husband and work on her M.

I don't know if they'll stay together or not. Don't care anymore.

Honestly, I feel better. Now that I know how bad I was being played. He will never want to R with me again now. I'm okay with that.

I'll stick around and try to heal, here. I'm gutted and sobbing but I feel good knowing that she's aware and will either go forward with caution or be hurt of her own choice: I told her what I was never given - the truth.